Please answer. i need advice?

i've been with my fiance for a year n a half. i know i have my whole to get married but he proposed and i was the happiest ever. we set a date for april 19, 2008. plans started going downhill because his family doesnt like me because of his sister so they wont help us with the wedding and my family didnt want me getting married yet either so they wouldnt help either. so it ended up being more of a headache then planning a happy wedding. we were going to get married at the courthouse and go on a small trip but he doesnt want to anymore because we're having money issues. thats the problem everything was great until november we started having money problems and not being able to go do things together like we used to. now its work and sitting at home. ive got a 3 yr old that adores him and he adores also. we're pretty unhappy at this point because we cant do anything and my fiance feels like no matter what we do or how hard he works its never enough and we never get anything from it. now..